双语阅读：笑点一样的人才能在一起

Study after study affirms that people want a mate with a sense of humor. But it’s less about you being a jokester than about finding a style of humor that makes you both laugh.不断有研究证实，人们喜欢有幽默感的伴侣。但这不是说你就要做搞笑分子，要找到能让你们俩都笑的幽默风格。

People say they want a sense of humor in a mate, but that’s a broad concept.人们说他们希望伴侣有幽默感，但这是个宽泛的概念。

What is strongly related to relationship satisfaction is the humor that couples create together.和恋爱关系满足感相关的是情侣彼此共同营造的幽默。

If you share a sense of what’s funny, it affirms you and affirms your relationship through laughter.真正起到作用的是你们俩对什么好笑有共识，这能使你确信，也让你们的关系在笑声中巩固。

Playfulness between romantic partners is a crucial component in bonding and establishing relational security and that laughter, particularly shared laughter, is an important indicator of romantic attraction between potential mates.恋爱关系里轻松活泼的状态对建立和稳固恋爱关系起到至关重要的`作用，欢笑，尤其是两人共同的笑点是潜在情侣彼此吸引的重要指示。

It’s good to have humor. It’s better to see it in your partner. And it’s best to share it.有幽默感自然好，你的伴侣有幽默感则更好，你们有共同的幽默感则好上加好。

It’s not about being a great comedian, but finding what’s funny in the everyday and enjoying it together.不是说要你成为伟大的喜剧演员，而是说要找到日常生活中有意思的笑料还能一起乐。

It is most important you do it together.你们一起乐，才是重中之重。